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Beyond the hall. Where else a funeral can happen.
A graveside under a tree. The back verandah. The bowls club. A paddock with a gum tree. If a hall isn't right, there's still a whole district to choose from.
20 September 2026
A funeral in a hall. How it actually works.
Who brings the coffin in? How long do you have? What about the kitchen? The practical side of holding a funeral somewhere that isn't a funeral home.
18 September 2026
Freestone Hall and the case for the small country hall
Every village on the Southern Downs has a hall. Most of them hire for less than a tank of fuel. And they're already the place where everyone gathers.
16 September 2026
Where I want to be buried
And it's important to acknowledge, because I don't want to turn natural burial into some sort of green funeral marketing exercise where we only count the things that make our preferred choice look good.
15 September 2026
A funeral at The Summit Hall
A restored timber hall on the Granite Belt, rebuilt by its own community after a fire. This is what a funeral looks like when it happens somewhere with a story of its own.
14 September 2026What actually makes a natural burial?
13 September 2026
A funeral doesn't have to happen in a funeral home
There is no rule in Queensland that says a funeral must be held in a funeral chapel. It can happen in a hall, at the graveside, at home, or anywhere else that means something to you.
11 September 2026
Letters to my grandchildren
It’s been quite some time since my last REAL post. A lot has been happening, in life and in the business. A lot is going on in the world.
6 September 2026
Why Rest Exists
Rest didn't begin with a business plan. It began with losing my mum.
1 August 2026
Farewell little one
In her short time here, she brought a quiet beauty into the world. Her presence was brief, like a sigh, yet the love that welcomed her ran deep.
25 October 2025
C is for COFFIN, CASKET and ... CAPSULE?
In her short time here, she brought a quiet beauty into the world. Her presence was brief, like a sigh, yet the love that welcomed her ran deep.
10 June 2025
P is for PROCESS, POWER and PREPARATION
Knowing who to call is the first step when someone dies. In this blog, I’m going to let you know what to do, who to call and what happens next.
8 May 2025
V is for Vigil
**Vigil** is the time spent being present with someone who is actively dying.
11 December 2024
A is for Ashes
Vigil is the time spent being present with someone who is actively dying.
1 December 2024
Last Ride
On a beautiful day, Ray took his last ride home and into the hands of his loving wife.
7 September 2024
Music
We talked about how music is such a trigger - no matter how detached you might be - to turn on the waterworks.
7 August 2024
Say My Name
I've read and shared many quotes relating to death and dying.
17 July 2024
A Stanthorpe funeral
In her short time here, she brought a quiet beauty into the world. Her presence was brief, like a sigh, yet the love that welcomed her ran deep.
14 February 2024
How one can DIY a funeral in Queensland
A DIY funeral is not as hard as you might think. The biggest barrier to carrying out a funeral at home is how our system is geared.
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